Hello everyone,
Happy Motivating Monday! In everything that we face in life, relationships are at the top. Take a look at your current life and truly think about your relationship in like. How do you communicate with others? How are you building rapport with those you meet? Make the active step in building confidence is for both mental and physical.
Think On These two points:
Take A Moment to Reflect:
- Be aware of what hinders your voice
- Don’t stop yourself from doing your best in whatever you do
Reflect on This Thought:
Reflect on this thought when you think about confidence. Everyone can have a greater level of confidence in who you are and what you can do. I post the question earlier in this blog “How do you communicate with others?” Having the confidence to talk to others is important when trying to connect. Here is a tip to help, 1st when meeting someone saying hello with a warm smile. A second 2nd tip is to have eye contact for as long as you can to show that you are present. These two tips take a lot of courage for someone not comfortable with meeting new people sporadically. This time is most important, take a deep breath and push through the fear is the 3rd tip.
It takes a continually practice getting comfortable which will build confidence. The question was also asked “How are you building rapport with those you meet?” In order to build rapport, you must first have a conversation with self that you can do this uncomfortable one day at a time. Be willing to be opened and curious about the others person you want to learn. Remember that the person you are trying to build a relationship with wants to know you are interested, willing to listen, and respectfully of the other persons space and boundaries. Having confidence takes belief in self and willingness to try. Do these three tips the next time you feel like running from meeting others and missing out on relationships that could be your forever connections.
Tips to Building Confidence:
- Step one – Be opened to meeting new people and willing to say something everyday
- Step two – Give eye contact for as long as you can, this breaks shyness overtime
- Step three – Take a deep breath in through your nose, and breathe out slowly through your mouth, this helps with relaxation
- Step four – Reset your thoughts to the positive affirmations you should speak to yourself
These tips are guidance to building your confidence in relationships. Having confidence in yourself is key for successful relationship with others. When you are confident in you as a person it flows over into your life. The way you talk, the way you show up in work ethics, as well as the way you interact, all takes commitment to self in do what’s uncomfortable, to becoming comfortable is what builds confidence. Do these steps and watch your confidence grow! How would it feel to be able to hold a conversation with anyone, because you have made practicing to be present in conversation easier! I challenge you to talk to one person that you wanted to meet and post about it on your Facebook or IG about your win in pushing through the fear of connecting.
Once again thank you for being a part of the Books by Fran Community everyone. Keep comments respectfully and modest. Absolutely NO solicitation post. The blog message is designed to encourage and inspire others to reach the level of greatness they hold within. Comment on this post to let me know if you like this content. Let the confidence in relationship be a day-by-day practice until you are able to speak in public without fear. You got this, relationships can be a new and exciting thing as well as a little scary, but doable to master if you trust that goodness in your heart to align with the first step of you giving you the chance to shine. Until next time be blessed everyone.