Hello everyone,
Happy Motivating Monday! I hope that you have all had a wonderful weekend of rest and rejuvenation. I want to talk a little regarding taking on other people’s problems. Often times people bring problems your way and the bulk of the problem has nothing to do with you are your goals and dreams. The goals and dreams that you envision has hope and light surrounding it, but the problems that people give to you are like shackles and weights design to hold you bond by the sting of it’s effects.
Think On These two points:
Take A Moment to Reflect:
- Every problem is not your problem to bear
- Don’t allow other people’s views to be your own
Reflect on This Thought:
Reflect on this thought when people bring you a problem that is not meant for you to solve, what are they saying? If you involve yourself with things, people’s mess they don’t really want solved business, and troubles that has nothing to do with what you can guide or advise, you will be consumed. Your shoulders are not meant to carry the world, but you can give help by sharing what you have learned and overcome through your experiences.
Let go of other people’s problems and focus on what you can control. Offer your how to tips and not your mind for worrying and toiling over broken promises and how the person is going to handle life from day to day. If it is not your business, then it is not your problem to solve. Pick your battles by knowing when to involve yourself and when not to. This will save you a lot of heart ache, pain, and suffering.
Be a support by telling others bring your problems take you are not in the problem-solving business, but a self-development one. If the answer is negative, then your space in your head and heart should be unavailable to hold their problems. Self-care your own life and be the example by not carrying other people’s problem as your own.
Once again thank you for being a part of the Books by Fran Community everyone. Keep comments respectfully and modest. Absolutely NO solicitation post. The blog message is designed to encourage and inspire others to reach the level of greatness they hold within. Comment on this post to let me know if you like this content. Be the ripple in the pond for change with knowledge. Don’t be weighed down by burdens not meant for your shoulder to hold. You are meant for more so, trust that you are good enough to be and have more that life gives. Believe in the you that desire better, start by telling one person that you are more than enough even if they don’t get it, you will. And watch your brilliant self-become more than enough.